Seeking somewhere

So often, we search for answers to internal problems in the outside world. The solution, we acknowledge, could be either within us or found outside of us. Confronting the invisible part of ourselves, all too often evokes fear and insecurity and we choose instead to deny that our difficulties rise from the foundation of who we are. We prefer to look for external quick-fixes to cure our ailments. Apparently some of us choose to embrace the notion that outside (chemical) alterations affect our internal (spiritual) well being. Worse, we place our trust in the external fix, rather than see the blessing in the internal experience which teaches us a priceless lesson. We surrender our power to worldly forces and indulge in a self-induced scapegoat if the cure fails, instead of spending that precious energy addressing the true questions our pain raises.
Lost Inside, Searching Outside

    

Insecurity

Feeling insecure firmly establishes your relationship to the world as inferior. Feeling equal to others, states your connection to the culture those around you. While your confidence - quite different from elitism - demonstrates your respect for yourself and what you offer the world.